With your parents advancing in age by the day, you might be wondering how you could approach your elderly parents about seeking assistance. While we all know that there are many senior living options for aging parents, it definitely isn’t an easy topic to have. Approaching this discussion correctly can help your aging parents live more safely and enjoy life to the fullest.
Here are some tips to make it easier for you when you need to talk to start a discussion with your aging parents about senior living options.
Educate Yourself
You’ll have a better idea of what will work best for your aging parents as you learn more about the multiple senior living options out there. It might be difficult to admit how much assistance your loved one needs, and you may find yourself downplaying their need for assistance. However, maintain as much objectivity as possible. You and your parents might be concerned about how communities deal with emergencies and health issues like flu epidemics or COVID-19. The majority of community websites contain information regarding their safety procedures, and you may always contact and inquire.
Start Early
Although it is a difficult topic to discuss, having the discussion as early as possible could help. Rather than waiting for a health catastrophe to push the subject, confronting this tough decision early will help you all come to a conclusion and begin planning with far less stress.
If you can get together and have a face-to-face discussion, that’s fantastic. If not, use a video call so you can at least see each other while talking. Make an effort to schedule your meeting at a time when both you and your parents are well-rested and calm. Make a time and a place where you can communicate without being interrupted.
Be Patient
You may feel ready to make a decision once you’ve gathered enough information. Your parents, on the other hand, may require more time. Allow them to take as much time as they need to find the right words to convey their emotions. Coming to an unhurried mutual agreement today will pay off in the future as you work together.
Make an Effort to Visit a Community
Showing your loved one what a community is like, whether in person or virtually, is one of the best methods to ease their fears about moving. This allows them to get a sense of the sort of lifestyle, amenities, culture, and neighbors they’ll be dealing with.
Discovery Village At Twin Creeks
If you wish to find out more about our comprehensive senior living programs, modern apartments and cottages, resort-style amenities, and more, contact Discovery Village At Twin Creeks to schedule a complimentary tour of our campus.
