In some cases, getting old can be a scary proposition. Independence is highly valued in American society. The loss of it can, in the eyes of some, directly affect how people view themselves and feel they are viewed by others. A sense of control and pride may be threatened due to physical impairment and/or cognitive decline as a person ages. Perhaps your mom, dad, grandma, grandpa, etc., may be facing this dilemma.
If you have a loved one who should probably be receiving more assistance than you can give, you’ll likely want to talk to them about new living arrangements. But, the elderly who refuse help can be difficult to deal with. They can feel misunderstood, helpless, frustrated, frightened, and experience any number of other emotions as a result of losing their independence. They may plant their feet firmly and flat-out reject the idea of moving to a retirement community or some other type of care setting.
With reassurance and validation, you can better approach your aging loved one in pursuit of a conversation regarding professional healthcare.
Start Small
In the beginning, a little bit of home care may suffice. Don’t wait too long, however, to have a big conversation with your parents. But at first, if all that’s needed is a little bit of help around the house, start there. Take baby steps.
Provide Options
There are numerous options available today for retired individuals. Independent living, supervised independent living, assisted living, professional home care, and even memory care are available. Explore all your options so you can present them to your loved ones in an educated, organized fashion.
Get Some Help If Needed
Though bringing in outside help isn’t always desirable, it may be the only way to convince your loved one they need a new living situation. Is there a doctor whose opinions they value? They may be able to counsel your parents.
Accentuate Your Side of the Story
Though the discussion is about your loved one, you may wish to introduce them to different ways which caring for them affects you and your life. They love you and want what’s best for you, and if this move would give you the needed peace of mind, they may more readily agree.
Promote the Positives
There are many benefits to living in a retirement community, so make a list of them and discuss each one with your aging loved one. Some retirement communities are comparable to living in a resort because so many amenities are offered! This can include chef-prepared meals in a fine dining atmosphere, concerts, scheduled activities, theaters, pools, salons, and more.
Evaluate the Situation of Your Loved One
Before you even embark on a conversation with your loved one regarding their living conditions, make sure you accurately evaluate their mental health, living conditions, safety, etc. Where do they need help and can they still care for themselves?
Get the Help You Need at Discovery Village At Palm Beach Gardens
When residing at Discovery Village At Palm Beach Gardens, your aging loved ones will get all the assistance they need. From helping with daily activities to making sure they take their meds as directed, our caring team stands ready. We offer both supervised independent living and senior assisted living in desirable, spacious apartments and a memory care program.
Our retirement community provides a resort-like setting with amenities like a salon, fine dining, club rooms, a theater – and much more! To learn more, please call us at 561-316-4626 to speak to a representative about sales and/or leasing. Any other questions can be directed to 561-801-7301. You can also use our convenient online form to contact us.
Better yet, see for yourself all we have to offer by scheduling a tour.
